Threaten wisely - beware of empty threats!
This campaign tip (no. 115) was published on Thursday, 25th April 2019
"If you don't do X I'll do Y".
Just beware ... the threat may be empty ... and if you're been threatened as a campaigner with (for example) someone leaving your campaign, it may be a case of "fair enough - if that's how you feel. If someone's in the habit of threatening to quit ... all you are doing by granting their request is prolonging their eventual departures. Which is not to say you should not listen - also somewhat unwise not to listen to people and think "why are they in that position" and "do they have a point in their request"
And be careful before you threaten. Say to me "I'll walk" and I have been know to say "go ahead" ...
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Just beware ... the threat may be empty ... and if you're been threatened as a campaigner with (for example) someone leaving your campaign, it may be a case of "fair enough - if that's how you feel. If someone's in the habit of threatening to quit ... all you are doing by granting their request is prolonging their eventual departures. Which is not to say you should not listen - also somewhat unwise not to listen to people and think "why are they in that position" and "do they have a point in their request"
And be careful before you threaten. Say to me "I'll walk" and I have been know to say "go ahead" ...
Discussion via Coffee Shop forum